How to CONTROL life

January 12th, 2010 | by novinthen | uncategorized

Jan
12

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Ok, the biggest side effects of metformin hcl 500mg question of ALL TIME,how to control you life?

Well, let me tell you frankly,IT IS NOT EASY! Life is not a TV box to be controlled by a remote. Even todays  hi-tech TVs are very hard to be controlled of! What is life compared to a man made TV !

Most of the time,we are NEVER in control of our life,or the lives of people surrounding us.  Life is just set of different things which happen around us and how we react to it controls our life.

Let me share you are very interesting theory with you. It’s called 90/10 principle.

What is this principle?

10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react.

What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%.

The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%. How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light. but you can control your reaction. Don’t let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let’s use an example. You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened. What happens next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit.

After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse.

You look forward to coming home. When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter. Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the metformin hcl 500 mg weight loss coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?

The answer is “D“. You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.

Here is what could have and should have happened. Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, “Its ok honey, you just need to be more careful next time”. Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different. Why? Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.


Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don’t be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don’t have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off. Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job. The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take outpour frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.

Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle. The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle. It CAN change your life!!! Enjoy…

So, did this small article change your perspective of live? :)

Full credit goes to the author at this link :- http://www.boreme.com/boreme/funny-2006/principle-90-10-p1.php

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Rainy Days

November 24th, 2008 | by novinthen | uncategorized

Nov
24

I love all kind of weather. Cold,Hot,Humid,Rain,Shine. Any kind of weather appeals me.

My policy is , there is no such thing as “BAD” weather,just different types of weather.

But heavy rain when you are going to work on a Monday morning does spoil the mood!

Damn you rain. Why dont you come during night time only!!!

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Its the economy,stupid!

September 16th, 2008 | by novinthen | uncategorized

Sep
16

Short Post.

While Pak Lah and Mr.Anwar aiming for which butt sits on PM’s chair,world economy is doing a “titanic” . Hello! Anybody looking at it?

Quote for the post : –

“Economic ignorance is the breeding ground of totalitarianism. — John Jewkes, British Economist”

The crystal ball is showing crack on all the industries. For Malaysia , IT/ Call Centre ( thousands of Indians ) / Capital Investment ( alot of Indians ) / Trust Funds ( alot of Indians ) / Logistic ( alot of indians ) and what nots are getting the hit.

For my friends,Start saving. Don’t jump jobs. Hold on to one. Save Save Save money. Enough teh tariking,changing handphones,dating banyak banyak.

God Save Us All.

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Problem of a Personal blog

August 13th, 2008 | by novinthen | uncategorized

Aug
13

The problem with personal blogs is , we do not have a specific category to blog about. We do not have any niche category to focus . i.e : politics, tech, entertainment etc. We just concentrate on whatever revolves around our life.

And life,sometimes it’s good. Most of the times its BAD.

Readers like to read Good stuffs only. So what we do when we have BAD times ? Times when our life is too pathetic to be blogged? Times when we do not have time to blog about our lives?

Well,we create niche categories like Motivating Mondays and Tech Tuesdays! :)

Majulah Blogging Untuk Negara.

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Ten years down the road

August 4th, 2008 | by novinthen | uncategorized

Aug
04

Ten years down the road what you think you will be doing ?

Would you have achieved your dreams?

Would have you done everything you wanted to do ?

Would you have completed your Degree/Masters/PhD?

Would you have have attained your 5 digit salary?

Would you have bought you dream house?

Would you have bought your dream car?

Would you have bought your super bike?

Would you have circled the globe,going places you always fancied off?

Whether you have achieved everything you wanted or not,

Would you regret of not doing something now?

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Would you regret of not doing something for the moment?

Would you ?????

PAUSE AND THINK

………

I dare do all that may become a man;
Who dares do more is none – Macbeth

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Where is this heading to?

June 24th, 2008 | by novinthen | uncategorized

Jun
24

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Social Media Strategist, Saranx adviced me to make my postings longer. Minimum of 200 words I think.

So how do I achieve that?

I can come out with ‘good’ topics and so on. The ‘good topics’ in Malaysian Indian blog-o-sphere is mostly about political party bashing,political leader bashing,blogger bashing,community bashing,gender bashing,mentality bashing. So , its generally BASHING up. Hantam right.Hantam left. Hantam,Up and down.

Of course,there are few ‘outstanding’ bloggers here and there. Some personal blogs,community based blogs,photo blogs,entertainment blogs etc. Someone asked me to bash up another blogger using my blog because I have some problem with that blogger. Well, to that someone, I dont do that :)

I only write anything related to community when I believe,I can come up with good stuff where people will read and get some knowledge out of the blog post. At this moment,I dont believe in highlighting each others negative points will do any good. Of course,it will bring good ‘web hits’. :) Sin Sells!

It is not like I’m asking bloggers to HIDE our negative points or NOT TO discuss about it.I believe all of us know what is our ‘evil’ side is all about. Rather then just highlighting and bashing up each other, I rather write about the cup of hot Milo I had earlier. One,it is more easier for me.Two, no  Coffee lovers will come and bash me up for writing about Milo :) . No one will accuse me of being “Milo’ist ( like rasict ) . Ah, Milo’ism is good. See,Minum Milo Saya Dah Jadi Sihat dan PANDAI.

Ok,where is this crab crap posting going on?Just want to inform you guys that,At the moment im working on a ‘good’ article. A good article which will give some good inputs to the general public. The article is titled “The i-Brand”. Will publish it next week Monday. Nothing big ler, Not like Rames’s magazine or whatsoever,just a normal blog post.

Also i crap  because Saranx asked me to write a long article

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