To marry or not to marry

July 18th 2008 in Daily Digest, Media

UPDATE : Most of the times,we tend to think of out the box,or beyond the matter and forgetting what the matter was all about.

No , im not getting married. Just something ..

Not suprisingly while talking to few friends over Teh Tarik,all of them have said they have NO idea of getting married at all.

Is it a trend nowadays or is it just being scared of commitments? After all, our generation is the MOST pampered generation I would say.

Why they dont want to settle down? The main reason,they just want to be “free”. As for myself, I would really love to dedicate my whole life for community service within and out of my party,M.I.C :) I see marriage,kudumbam,kutti as a distraction for my community work. Anyway,Man Proposes God Opposes! My life,For the people!

What is your reason for not getting married or to get married ?


24 comments to...
“To marry or not to marry”
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puvanan

Considering the price of Dumex and Pampers.. there is no way I can get married till I earn a salary of five figures. :P


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novinthen

Aiyo. ninge inthe alevuku yosikiringela? besh besh :) Mapilai Mitali la u :) .. lolx ;)


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maya

mk sure i dun receive ur wedding invitation novin. cakap senang la wei..:-)


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vickn3s

getting married??? wooooooo….cant think about it at the moment. phobia oh phobia…i would say its personal preferences. its not dat if u get married u cant serve the people, see ur idol, dato seri samyvelu, he’s married, Dr M is married and so on.gd luck novin!!!hahaha


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Mahendran

puvanan : dumex or durex :P

novin..isk2..yennaa pa ithe

/me too young to think! *escape


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bee

Just wondering ah Novin…

If you’re not willing to dedicate your life to a small unit called family, how an entire community?

If a small unit called family can distract you, a community will have far much more distractions. How then?

Just my 2 cents ar…a diff angle of view :-p

“Morning was in Ipoh,afternoon in K.L. Evening back in Ipoh. Night back in K.L.” –> Oi since when u became Superman laa..tak cakap puunn….

Sorry ah forgot to call u..hehe was enjoying lunch…I call u after work =P


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thiya

hmm…….. it is a stage of life,when u r young ur parent r there to take care of u, but they are getting old, so do u, u will need sumone else to care n b cared.tht is y u need a life partner. as u age there is a lot of thing to face , 1+1=3, 2 persons brain combine can produce better solution, provided u choose a proper partner.


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Gaya3

hmm, well i dun mind getting married…BUT i have very high expectation on my future husband…i wan sum1 very loaded1 …haha..he sud b able to give me RM5k pluss as my pocket money…hehe..


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Kelanggu

Poi Ponggesore Dei !


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novinthen

To all,

If i get married , at least few percentage of my attentions goes to my family. It just i want to put 100 % attention on my community works :) Also I said, Man proposes God Opposes, So anything can happen in future rite :) . Maybe ill get married Nayantara or Asin. Who knows. hehe :)

Bee got me totally wrong,community will be never a distraction but an attraction to me.

Gaya3 , ena kodumai sar ithu,

Kelanggu ,varendi unake… Family MAN not allowed in this topic! LOL.


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tulipspeaks

Can’t speak for you but wrote something similar in my blog a day before. Well.. partly similar.

Btwn, Google has funny ad at the bottom of this post. :P

ammu.


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tulipspeaks

Ah.. the ad changed edi. Nvm, took a screenshot:
http://img530.imageshack.us/my.php?image=novinblogon9.jpg

:P

ammu.


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maya

@kelanggu - ha.ha.ha.ha. . i burst into laughing bro. :-)
@novin - u wan nayan or asin ah? rombe neneputhan. itu badan kasi turun dulu la. :-)


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dr_nilam

Ummm.. to get married or not to get married? well a part of you will always say go and get married. You will have some one who will love you, be with you as your best friend, be someone who will share the rest of life with you, make you feel secured and comfortable to spend rest of your life. The other part of you will say , why will you want to get married and suffer when you can spend all that you earn for yourself. Be independant and free! Being able to do anything you want at anytime without think of another party. What if the person you’re getting married to is a jerk? *there junks of jerks around nowadays* What if he/she cheats on me later? What if he/she is not up to my expectation? What about his/her family?
This is just 5% of total questions running in our mind, maybe more or maybe less.. but what i think is.. Human being are just selfish. No matter what they choose, definitely there will more points on self benefits. I dont blame them,coz even i am like that.
You may say whatever reasons you like to get married or not to get married, but no one know what is waiting for us at the end of the road. So just live your life happily, help those who needs it, and never hurt anyone. Hari Om…


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novinthen

Dr Nilam : Dr Knows best :) Agreeed! :twisted:


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KuMzZ

juz get married ler…its a stage of life..but i dare not to think bout it.. i mean i really dun trust marriage..:P


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dr_nilam

Hey Novin, why my comment got rate 2.5 and yours got rated 2.7? Tak Adil!


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novinthen

Kumzz : lol :) u dont trust marriage and u asking me to marry ? too much la

Dr_Nilam : Lol. that one i never rate la, people rate!!.. enakum onnum teriyathu pa


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choo

For girls, ppl will always expect us to get married once we reached a certain age. but if i ever get married, it would be to someone whom i can share my life with. and not just bcos i’m nearing 30 and i have to get married…

but, u said u want to dedicate ur life to community work. but i don’t think that a family will distract u from that. see it from another angle.. it will be because that u have a family and u know the value of family that will drive u to serve better.. or, maybe ur other one would be a very good partner in ur work to serve ur community..

but really, it all just depends on urself..


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poobalan

get married as part of learning experience to move on your life cycle. as Hindus, part of the darma is of being a family member - husband, wife etc. community service is never a barrier for starting a family. family is part of community too. however, those that have an attraction to be brahmachariya may have divine guidance :)

its easy to say not planning to get married. but down the lane when you are in the 50s, 60s, make sure there are alternatives channels for you. its nothing to do with being selfish as the reason for getting married. but its part of life and process of soul evolution.


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novinthen

Chooo : Wah u available means i ready to get married lor! :) hehehe…

poobalan : when im in 50s/60s hopefully ill have many alternatives to make myself busy :)


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choo

:twisted: :twisted: yeah rite!!


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choo

forgot to tell u, of course i’m available… if not i’ll make myself available, to attend ur wedding!!!! :razz: :mrgreen:


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novinthen

choo : lol! piggy ! :twisted:




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